Well ,well !!! here i am back again :) Had been busy with some other writings ...which surely will come up somewhere later in my blogs.
For a while now i have been quite observant about the varied kinds of people we meet at different junctions of our life .some who become part of our memories and some who came just to teach us lessons and the less few who were just faces...
All through these observations,what i came out with is something which i personally use as a yard stick to judge people or at least be cautious of.
We Indians are basically a bunch of gullible people.With our hearts on our sleeves, we let it melt with the slightest drop of a tear to the point of empathy.Our vulnerabilities are no longer hidden ! The pathos that we go through is just incomparable. And the most important,we believe anyone and everyone who talks good,who treats us well and who even if back stabs but at least has a smiling countenance.We are one hell of EMOTIONAL FOOLS !!!
But that's the way we have been conditioned from the time we have know to feel or understand emotions.And the icing on the cake is we still don't learn from our mistakes...at least few of us.
We Indians are basically a bunch of gullible people.With our hearts on our sleeves, we let it melt with the slightest drop of a tear to the point of empathy.Our vulnerabilities are no longer hidden ! The pathos that we go through is just incomparable. And the most important,we believe anyone and everyone who talks good,who treats us well and who even if back stabs but at least has a smiling countenance.We are one hell of EMOTIONAL FOOLS !!!
But that's the way we have been conditioned from the time we have know to feel or understand emotions.And the icing on the cake is we still don't learn from our mistakes...at least few of us.
When it comes to me judging people ,'the' one rule I have is ...people are either Good or Genuinely Good..
Ya!!! you read it write..
The first category of people are the ones who are loved and likened by many.Their mere charm and the ability to have facades all the time makes them the spotlight at any event go.But appearances are deceptive holds true and more for this class of people...because most of the times they carry an ulterior motives and expect things in return...They are the ones who have a loud exterior and are garrulous to the point where the 'other' is forced to put cotton buds in his ear..;) They are virtual epitomes for perfect human beings in any role they play in actual life.At least that's what they keep up to.The one and the most distinguishing thing about such class of people is the way they talk and express which is so refined.But less often when you see their true colours, would be in for a shock and astonished at the way they keep up appearances..the words they blurt out ,the kind of language they use....
The second category of Genuinely Good people are the ones who are not liked by all....BUT when it matters they are the ones who show their love and concern without any expectations..These people are not much into talks and believe in actions speaking louder than words.A friend for life ,they are the ones who are difficult to befriend.
Life teaches you lessons and if you incorporate them into yours, you grow into better people..Well i hope i have helped at least some of you to understand people and the level of closeness that one should share with them.Surely, the world is stuffed with these kind of people and we all have come across them,but the choice remains with us whether we want them to be a part of our memory or to be just faces..
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